After a sleepless night and an entire day of frustration with Ellie, our new puppy, I’ve come to realize how wonderful dog ownership really is. There are many valuable lessons that can be learned from such a simple yet complex creature and I’m thankful to have realized them in such an odd and trying time in my life.

Lesson #1: “Just do it”

Behavior must change first; attitude change will follow.  That is perhaps the most life-changing lesson I’ve ever picked up from a class lecture.  For the longest time, I’ve been a man who lacked self-control and gall in following through with my plans.  While I can’t say that I’ve grown completely out of it yet, these past few months have proven this to be true.  By acting without giving myself a chance to back out, I’ve not only managed to stay consistent on my healthy eating and exercise habits, but I’ve also been able to care for this puppy in the most proper way imaginable (thanks Google!) 

Lesson #2: Remain Calm, yet Firm

Apparently, according to multiple canine psychologists, dogs (among other animals) can literally “feel” the emotion of a human being.  While this ability is not entirely lost on the human race, it is remarkable how our puppy responds to my mood.  Hence, in order to keep my puppy calm and comfortable, I must be calm and relaxed.  However, I must also maintain firmness - I must be quick and precise in my thought process and my actions.  Outcome?  My mind has not been this relaxed in months.  These past few months have been emotionally draining.  However, even though I am physically tired now, my heart and mind are at a state of peace I haven’t experienced in over a year.  Plus, there’s just nothing like having a puppy peacefully napping on your lap.  

Lesson #3: Love to Spare

There’s quite a bit of work when it comes to raising a puppy.  To be very honest, until this point, I’ve never really understood the meaning of “doing an activity with love”.  I can’t really explain it, but having this living and breathing pup depending on me has really been fulfilling my paternal instincts. While I am aware of my weakness in the scope of the big world, having Ellie to take care of makes every problem in my life minute.  Exams, personal problems, personal hopes and desires - they just don’t really seem to matter.  For my heart, I’ve found Ellie to pour my love into and between the both of us, there’s plenty of love to spare.  

In a nutshell…

while I’ve had my doubts in getting this dog (more responsibility, weighed consequences, etc), the joy and peace that she brings to my life….it’s therapeutic!  While there are things to worry about, I just can’t bring myself to fidget and fuss knowing that I’m looked upon by her and perhaps, many others, to be a leading man.  And this must be the power of love.  Even by giving it, I am imbued with the strength to stand firm.  By receiving it, I remember what peace feels like and especially, the need to keep that peace.  

Thanks, God.  I have no doubt You sent me such a peculiar friend in my time of need.